What Is Consent?

Consent means freely agreeing to do something, whether it’s holding hands, kissing, or anything more intimate. It must be enthusiastic, informed, and ongoing. If you’re unsure whether someone’s okay with something — you ask.

Why It Matters

Consent is the foundation of healthy, respectful relationships. Without it, actions can cause discomfort, harm, or even break the law. Knowing how to give, get, and respect consent keeps everyone safe and valued.

Myths, Busted

Myth: If they didn’t say “no,” it’s okay.
Fact: Silence is not consent — look for a clear “yes.”

Myth: Once someone says yes, they can’t change their mind.
Fact: Consent can be withdrawn at any time.

How to Ask for Consent

It can be as simple as:

• “Is this okay?”

• “Do you want to keep going?”

• “Would you like to…?”

If the answer isn’t a clear yes — stop.

Body Language Counts

Sometimes people feel uncomfortable saying “no” out loud. Look for signs like pulling away, going quiet, or seeming tense. If you notice these, check in or pause.

Tips for Respecting Consent

1. Ask every time — don’t assume.

2. Listen to both words and body language.

3. Be okay with “no” — it’s not personal.

4. Give others space to decide without pressure.

Final Word

Consent is about respect, not rules. It’s proof you care about the other person’s comfort and your own boundaries. The magic word isn’t “yes” — it’s asking, listening, and respecting the answer.